Indulgence

August 10, 2018  •  3 Comments

Some synonyms for indulgence: satisfaction, gratification, fulfillment. When I think of ‘indulgences’ I think mostly about eating food I don’t normally eat and staying up late to watch TV, which I also rarely do. But what I noticed this week, while the kids have been at sleep-away camp, is how those specific indulgences actually don’t leave me feeling satisfied, gratified or in the least bit fulfilled.

This kind of brings me back to my point in Pyramid Theory, that making the right choice for me, the healthy choice, always wins out in the end...even if I'm on 'vacation'. Only being responsible for myself while the kids are away already feels like an indulgence that fosters incredible peace in my days. And there are a lot of other things I’ve been doing that actually leave me feeling very satisfied, gratified and fulfilled. I think it's time that I redefine what I consider to be indulgent.

Do you have things you do that feel like an indulgence but once you do them you don’t feel so great? Do you have healthy indulgences that make you feel better about yourself? Please consider leaving a comment below, I’d love to hear from you.

 

SUBSCRIBE HERE,
I would totally classify Focus Friday as a healthy indulgence


Comments

Mags
My Alaska Phone Friend posted a private comment you can’t see, but I’m going to respond to it.
For those of you who don’t know, which is almost all of you, I met my friend because she used to call her aunt every night at 6pm in Washington state and her aunt’s number was one digit different from ours, hence, we got the occasional same wrong number at 9pm. After it happened a few times, I just stared talking to her. About 15 years later, her aunt has long since passed away but we still chat every once in a while and also exchange Christmas cards and letters. She even sends the kids gifts at Christmas!

Fishing also sounds like the perfect indulgence. And fudgesicles! My guess is that fudgesicles would solve most of the world’s problems if we just gave them the chance.
Thanks so much for taking the time to write my A.P.F.
Mags
Thanks so much for your comment Marie. I love that you mentioned reading, that's the perfect indulgence. There's no such thing as staying up and reading for me though. Once my eyes go back and forth a few times and I'm overtired--I'm out like a light.
Marie(non-registered)
I find when I try to sleep in I actually feel worse and more lethargic throughout the day instead of rested. The indulgence would be to go to bed early and feel well rested at my early rise time, but the staying up late and reading indulgence is hard to break. Great post!
No comments posted.
Loading...

Archive
January February March April May June July August September October November (1) December (1)
January February March (2) April (1) May (1) June July August (1) September (1) October November December (2)
January February March (1) April (5) May (1) June (1) July August (1) September October November December
January February March April May June (1) July (1) August (3) September October (1) November (3) December
January (1) February March (2) April May June July (2) August (1) September October November December
January February March (2) April (3) May June July August (3) September (4) October November December
January (13) February (3) March April May June July (1) August September October November (6) December
January (3) February (11) March (1) April May (1) June July August September (1) October November (3) December
January (4) February (2) March April May June July August September October November December
January February March April May June July August September October November December
January February March April May June July August September October November December
January February March April May June July August September October November December
January February March April May June July August September October November December
January February March April May June July August September October November December